The truth is: overthinking is rarely solved by more thinking. It’s a signal from the body that you’ve left your center—and it’s time to come back.

For many high performers—veterans, athletes, corporate leaders—identity becomes inseparable from achievement. You were the one others counted on. The one who got things done. The one who wore the title, carried the badge, held the standard. But what happens when the season ends, the uniform comes off, or the role shifts?

You know the voice. The one that says you're not good enough. That you're going to mess it up. That everyone else has it figured out—except you. For high performers—executives, athletes, veterans, and ambitious professionals—this internal critic can be relentless. It might sound like motivation, like it's pushing you to do more or be better. But underneath it, there's often fear: fear of failure, rejection, being seen, or not being enough.

The faster you climb, the more pressure you feel to keep going. In Northern Virginia, ambition is expected, stress is normalized, and burnout is often disguised as success.